Sunday, January 22, 2012

Tanner's response to Lindsey's post


Hi Linz. I was going to make a quick comment, but it ended up being so long I turned it into a post. I struggle with a lot of the same stuff you do, but I know you have a lot of your own unique challenges. I tried to sum up my advice in 4 simple points that are helping me. The fact of the matter is…I don’t know if it will be successful this time, but I’m trying to stay motivated and positive.  
1) Don't stress about it so much.

2) Realize that true change is difficult to the say the least. Rafiki: "Change is good!" Simba: "Yeah, but it's not easy." It won't happen in a day, week, 6 week diet plan, or probably even in a year. So find joy and satisfaction in the little things you are able to do and then slowly add those little things together.

3) GET INTO FUHRMAN  (if that is what you are doing).
Ask Michael if you can spend $30 and purchase a 6 month membership, or use Dad's or mine. Go on there and find recipes. If you can't find them there, look on the blog or on the web. Get excited about it.
Try new things. That doesn't mean that you have to waste money on crap you don't know if you like. We wasted a lot of money on that kind of stuff the first 2 weeks.  My rule for a new recipe is this, if it has ingredients that you like in it, then you will probably like the dish.
Put tons of crap into your salads: almonds, walnuts, sunflower seeds, grapes, tomatoes, black beans, radishes, mushrooms, craisons (not all at once of course). I find my salads are the best when there are at least 3 toppings. Try the ranch spritzer from Walmart, we love it. It's only 15 calories for like 10 sprays. So I really don't put a limit to how much I use. If you don’t like it try something else, because you really need a dressing you like. To make an easy salad do this: go to Walmart and buy two plastic tubs of "Marketside Spring Mix." It’s just a whole bunch of  pre-cut weird salad stuff you see on Chopped. Then buy one thing of spinach. This will last you two whole weeks. This has made a huge difference for us, it's quick and there is a large variety.  
Buy edamame (cheap at Walmart), make shakes, make soup and chile that will last for days. Buy the progresso soup that only has like 120-200 Cal per can they have flavors like clam chowder, chicken noodle, itialian meat ball, chicken and dumplings, vegetable barley. Basically any of the cans with weight watcher points on the side. Although they aren't strictly Fuhrman they are good for you and I think fantastic. When I don't feel like having a huge salad, I'll eat a whole can of soup with a medium salad, or a package of edamame, and then a couple pieces of fruit. Make your own salsa and dips. Buy fruit that you like and that is on sale.
I wish I could say that doing this will get rid of your appetite. But IT WILL NOT. Half the battle will be learning to control the appetite. It sucks at first. There is no way around it. Fuhrman says you don’t need to be hungry, but that is a bunch of crap. I eat healthy stuff till I can’t do it anymore. Not because I’m too full, but I just feel tired of eating and relatively satisfied. Then an hour later, I can eat a gain. To help I chew sugar free gum, and drink water. And if I can’t stand it any longer…HAVE A SALAD OR A BOWL OF SOUP.
Keep living your life. If you go to a party and there is cake and ice cream, have a small helping. Nina and I laughed at ourselves the other day when we went to a party. They had cake and ice cream, so went over and got us a little of both. It was delicious, but we really tried to limit it to one small helping. We got home and realized that it was probably one full serving of ice cream (like 1/2 cup), and then realized we had probably never had just one serving in our whole lives!

4)  IT’S ABOUT CONSISTANCY NOT PERFECTION. I wish I could say that I’ve been perfect, but I haven’t. But I guarantee you this, the reason most people fail this diet is because they give up, not because they stopped losing weight or couldn’t do it.

Good luck.

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